Friday, August 19, 2011

If you could take a pill to rid yourself of the pain ociated with a breakup, would you take it?

I visit YaHoo Answers frequently, and time and time again, I respond to a lot of questions that revolve around women who find themselves stuck in bad relationships, but cannot find the courage to leave despite their on-going misery. The topics read like a bad Jerry Springer episode: He cheats on me, but I love him; he has had other children outside the marriage, but I love him; he beats me, humilates me, has no job, he's a horrible parent and given me VD, but I LOVE HIM!! I don't understand this. I mean . . I have had my share of bad relationships, but if I even got a hint of something funny going on, I was outta there. I just wasn't having it!! I don't know if this is an issue of my self-esteem or because I had a host of strong women in my family that instilled in me in at an early age that I was worthy of being loved. Honestly, I think if there was a piil that allowed women to get over the heartache, I think they would be leaving these types of men in droves. What do you think?

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