A question for all who want to help. 10 points to best answer?

It sounds like he's interested. Since you guys belong to the same gym, ask him something about the gym (how do you use a certain piece of equipment, what weight should you use to tone but not bulk up, when is it slow, is one of the trainers good, etc) or if he'd like to work out together sometime. (The gym is also a way to get him to help you with your workout. If he's good at exercise then you could ask him for some pointers or even to help train you or use a new piece of equipment. That way he'll be complimented on you thinking of him as a good example and he'll be able to teach you something, a favorite pastime of guys) If the gym is a bad idea then tell him you need a guy's opinion about something (like your hair- straight or curly?) and ask him to help you out. Remember to keep it light and smile so he doesn't feel intimidated or like he's being put on the spot! Good luck!